Why are there so many saved singled women in the church? It appears there has been a conspiracy against women who has chosen to live for God. The men of the church are seeking outside the church for a wife. What’s up with that picture? What I chose to wait for my husband to give up my goodies and that isn’t good enough for the saved men.
Some of my thoughts on this subject are simple. The men aren’t seeking to live such Holy lives as the women. They are afraid that us saved, sanctified, filled with the Holy Ghost women can’t perform in the bedroom, or it’s simple as ABC…….Christian women carry to much baggage. I prefer to go with the latter part of this.
If I have to hear one more big hat wearing, bible toting, single for the past ten years Christian woman go and talk about her past relationship as though they just broke up TODAY! I might have to tell it like it is.
No man whether saved or unsaved wants a woman who is carrying baggage. You seeking God for a husband but yet haven’t sought God for a healing. God isn’t going to send you a whole man for you to mess him up with your foolishness. Why you might ask?
For one if you haven’t asked God to make you whole in Him then you will seek to find your wholeness in that man. Meaning he wouldn’t be able to breath without you standing or asking him to share with you. He will be the center of your attention, the apple of your eye, the reason you breath. “NO, that is far from the truth” some of you are saying.
Don’t take it from me but when 2,3,4 more years past and the closetest you got to a possible husband was the blind date your Pastor and First Lady set you up with that didn’t go no further than the third date and that was only after they begged him to give it another try. But after hearing you go on and on about nothing because you hadn’t opened your heart up totally to God for him to feed you fresh knowledge, wisdom, and things that interest others and not just you.
Then will you cry out for God to work on YOU!
Brianna Headen 