We as women can be so emotional and get caught in the heat of an emotional moment. If we aren’t careful we will spend the rest of our lives with a man who only look to use us as some would say “in house ***”. You can fill in the blanks. We will settle for the playhouse while he is out getting with any and everybody who will tolerate his sorry behind while you sit in the house being faithful to him.
5-10yrs down the road all you have to show for the relationship is a couple of kids (some might not be yours), debt up to your eye balls, strange looks from people who only know you through that dog of a man you chose to be with all these years, and 5 years age increase from all the stress this piece of a man has caused you.
Open your eyes to the many women who have traveled that same road you are on and look at the bright complexion that is upon their face. They might have faced some hard times but it ain’t nothing like facing hard times with the Good Lord verses facing them with a man who knows you are going to make everything all right because he knows you are going to make sure the kids have lights, food, and somewhere to live. He might come off his rear end with something but he is nine times out of ten going to blame you for what ever hard spot ya’ll have hit. Jesus just said give all your cares to him and he will make everything all right. If you really took the time to talk to some of these women they will tell you not to even be friends with these men after the fact because they will never change till they meet their match. Move on to higher ground because as long as you chose them they will always chose you & the other women silly enough to deal with him.
A word to the wise: It’s better to be alone than to live a life of hell because when you start adding up how many good days verses your bad days the bad will always out weigh your good.